Being in love is a beautiful thing. When you first fall in love with someone your chemistry takes over and you feel like you could never live without that person. As time passes however, being in love is still beautiful, but that chemical support wears off, and you have to work to feel those butterflies. Staying in a healthy monogamous relationship is hard, but spontaneity is something that can keep your relationship fresh and fun for years to come. Here are a list of things you can do for the love of your life to keep that spark alive in your relationship.
|1.||Buy her flowers.|
|2.||Set up a candlelight dinner and surprise him/her when they come home from work.|
|3.||Take him out to his favorite place for dinner and pay for it.|
|4.||Buy him tickets to see his favorite band/artist in concert.|
|5.||Give her a massage randomly.|
|6.||Have sex in your car before you go out to dinner.|
|7.||Make out for no reason.|
|8.||Give him head in the shower when he’s not expecting it.|
|9.||Clean the entire house before your significant other comes home.|
|10.||Make a path of candles to the bedroom and have a romantic night at home.|
|11.||Set up a “fort” in the living room on a weekend at home. It will feel like you’re camping and will be a lot of fun.|
|12.||Surprise him/her with a random gift for no reason; something they have been wanting.|
|13.||Dress up for him and role play; entice his imagination.|
|14.||Let her choose the dinner destination and movie.|
|15.||Go out and dance provocatively together.|
Although some of these may not seem like a big deal, little gestures like these are ways to keep the spark alive and show the person you love that you care for them. Give them a shot.
Do you have any tips in regards to being in love and being spontaneous? Do you and your significant other do any of these? And if so, how are they working out for you? I’d love to hear from you!